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Post by sexysafire on Jun 18, 2008 14:49:07 GMT -5
That is one of the worst thing a person can do is to wait for someone to complete them. They should be complete within themselves first. I also think it's wrong that when a person does get hurt, they start to blame that entire sex.
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Post by eprncss on Jun 18, 2008 16:58:49 GMT -5
I agree. This is exactly why it is utterly imperative to embrace singleness!!! That way when someone comes along they will not complete you but compliment you! What I was referring to earlier was in the beginning of a courtship people do things to woo another but once they get comfortable with that person, those things come to a halt. The things you do to get a person are the same things you should continue to do to keep that person and then some...
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 18, 2008 20:36:05 GMT -5
Some people think they have the perfect relationship until they move in with one another. You never fullly know a person until you live with them.........trust me!!! But I do agree comple eprncss. Do the same things that you did for one another when you were dating. I know it's damn near impossible when you have kids, but it helps to have a date night every other weekend or so. And I don't mean just dinner and a movie. Be creative....go dancing, go to a lounge, sit under the stars and talk. I know one thing that I do in my relationship is that we have these endless talks like twice a month or so. We have a special place where we go and just look at everything around us and just talk about any and everything. Before we know it, it's like 6 hours or so that go by. I know it seems crazy, but it does make me closer and closer to him.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 19, 2008 9:02:45 GMT -5
THATS TRUE. ANOTHER THING THAT IS IMPORTANT IS THAT YOU NEED TO GROW TOGETHER AS A COUPLE AND NOT APART AS INDIVIDUALS.
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 19, 2008 12:50:23 GMT -5
Whenever we go through a rough time in my relationship, we just take a moment and clear our heads and then just look at each other and just say "It's just you and me, babe." Then we're able to come up with a solution together.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 19, 2008 13:23:31 GMT -5
AWE, HOW TOUCHING, LOL
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 19, 2008 13:25:06 GMT -5
Stop being a hater!!!!
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 20, 2008 8:56:14 GMT -5
IM A LOVER NOT A HATER BABY!!!
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 20, 2008 9:12:17 GMT -5
I wouldn't rush a person into just finding a mate or anything like that. Just relax and enjoy your life, love always comes when you least expect it. Sometimes it might stalk you too!!! LMAO
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 20, 2008 10:31:39 GMT -5
I SAY YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU CAN EXPECT ANYONE ELSE TO.
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 20, 2008 12:48:54 GMT -5
Preach it!!!!
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Post by RiLLz....The Mad Hater on Jun 20, 2008 13:21:27 GMT -5
what do you do when u just want it to be you....bump sexy i want my freedom back.... what do u do when being with her stops you from being u....no fronten ...just tryen to make it work what do u do when previous relationships have just soured and future ones you can careless about
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 22, 2008 11:38:11 GMT -5
^^^^^ SOUNDS PRETTY MUCH LIKE MARRIAGE, LOL!!!!!
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 23, 2008 11:09:56 GMT -5
lol, that's messed up. Marriage is a lot of work.
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