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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 13, 2008 12:07:12 GMT -5
WHAT ENDS A RELATIONSHIP? AND WHY DO WE TRY TO HOLD ONTO SOMETHING THAT WE KNOW IS SLIPPING AWAY?
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 16, 2008 9:52:59 GMT -5
In my opinion, it takes a lot to end a relationship. I know people cheat and blah blah blah. But people are just human, we all make mistakes. I know I have. But when there is abuse involved, that's when it's time to be out.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 16, 2008 10:29:02 GMT -5
OK, SO WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR MOST WOMEN IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS TO LEAVE?
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 16, 2008 12:37:59 GMT -5
It's because we feel that they are really sorry when they say they are sorry and we believe that our love for them will eventually change them. But more often than not, that is not the case. It also ties into the fact that we feel that we don't deserve any better, so we just put up with it. Well that was the case for me anyway.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 16, 2008 12:44:19 GMT -5
THATS THE NUMBER ONE PROBLEM WITH WOMEN, STOP THINING YALL CAN CHANGE THESE MEN. THATS AN AWFUL WAY TO FEEL, IM GLAD YOU OVERCAME IT BUT HOW DID YOU DO IT? WAS IT ADVICE THAT SOMEONE GAVE YOU OR JUST SOMETHING YOU REALIZED ON YOUR OWN?
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 16, 2008 12:48:11 GMT -5
I realized it when I was in the hospital with a cracked rib, concussion, fractured jaw and nose. That was my moment of clarity.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 16, 2008 13:13:59 GMT -5
WOW!!!! SOMETHINGS I JUST CANT UNDERSTAND. I KNOW WAY TOO MANY WOMEN WITH BAD EXPERIENCES LIKE THAT.
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 16, 2008 17:07:54 GMT -5
Yeah, it's a sad statistic, but it seems to happen at one point in time to every woman. Especially in the areas we live in. It's not like we go looking for it.....it just happens. I just chalk it up to experience. But needless to stay, I will teach my daughter better than that.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 16, 2008 21:47:29 GMT -5
I GUESS THATS WHATS IMPORTANT. LEARN AND PASS IT ON TO SOMEONE ELSE.
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 16, 2008 21:53:55 GMT -5
Well you know how people are, some only learn if they experience it themselves. Everyone thinks that their experience is different, but in all actuality...........it's not.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 16, 2008 21:59:20 GMT -5
OK, SO WHAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP WORK?
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 16, 2008 22:04:14 GMT -5
Communication is the first and foremost thing. Then I would say Friendship between the couple. Appreciation for one another. Of course, there has to be an attraction and a really good sexual appetite between the two. Well, that's what does it for me!!!!! lol
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 16, 2008 22:09:25 GMT -5
ALL THAT SOUNDS GOOD IN THEORY BUT WHAT ACTUALLY MAKES IT WORK, WHAT KEEPS IT GOING?
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 16, 2008 22:14:17 GMT -5
Hhhhmmmm, porn? NO NO NO wait, 3 sums?!! Or how about 3 sums taped of yourself and turned into porn? lmao
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 17, 2008 10:27:07 GMT -5
YOU REALLY ARE THE DEVIL, ARENT YOU???
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