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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 19, 2008 10:03:58 GMT -5
SHOULD YOU BE CONSIDERED A HOE OR JUST CURIOUS, LOL. MOST PEOPLE LIKE TO LIVE IN THE MOMENT AND I CANT FAULT THEM FOR THAT, IM ALL FOR IT BUT SOME OF YALL JUST LOOSE WITH THE BOOTY, LMAO!!!
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Post by Wicked on Jun 19, 2008 10:20:47 GMT -5
Call me old fashion but I'd be a little skeptical about hitting on the first date. I know I'm a mack but that is beside the point. I would be concerned, if it was that easy for me, would it be that easy for the next man or was it that easy for the man before me. On the other hand we are all grown and grown folk should be alright making grown folk decisions.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 19, 2008 10:41:26 GMT -5
EXACTLY, I FEEL THE SAME WAY. I MEAN AS MEN, AT WHAT POINT DO WE CHECK OUR EGOS AND BE LIKE MAYBE SHE JUST NASTY. I HAVE NEVER BEEN A FAN OF THE EASY BOOTY, HEAD MAY BE A DIFFERENT STORY THOUGH, LOL. HEAD IS MORE LIKE A GOODIE BAG AT A KIDS PARTY, SURE YOU HAD A GOOD TIME BUT LET ME GIVE YOU SOMETHING EXTRA TO TOP THE NIGHT OFF, LOL!!!
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 19, 2008 12:47:03 GMT -5
LOL, now that was funny!!! LMAO
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Post by eprncss on Jun 19, 2008 15:11:55 GMT -5
Now when u say 1st date, does that mean there were a few conversations leading up to that date or was it the initial meeting and the date was the next communication???
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 19, 2008 15:41:54 GMT -5
Now when u say 1st date, does that mean there were a few conversations leading up to that date or was it the initial meeting and the date was the next communication??? EITHER ONE
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Post by Wicked on Jun 19, 2008 15:59:41 GMT -5
That's a different ball game there. If we've talked about somethings, I'm sure sex came up in conversation.
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Post by Wicked on Jun 19, 2008 16:01:55 GMT -5
EXACTLY, I FEEL THE SAME WAY. I MEAN AS MEN, AT WHAT POINT DO WE CHECK OUR EGOS AND BE LIKE MAYBE SHE JUST NASTY. I HAVE NEVER BEEN A FAN OF THE EASY BOOTY, HEAD MAY BE A DIFFERENT STORY THOUGH, LOL. HEAD IS MORE LIKE A GOODIE BAG AT A KIDS PARTY, SURE YOU HAD A GOOD TIME BUT LET ME GIVE YOU SOMETHING EXTRA TO TOP THE NIGHT OFF, LOL!!! But what about reciprocating? Would you give a chick head that you just met?
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Post by eprncss on Jun 19, 2008 17:20:55 GMT -5
It's definitely different! Talking over the phone builds an emotional connection and sometimes a sexual tension that can be unbearable to stand on that 1st date!!!
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Post by Wicked on Jun 20, 2008 8:50:34 GMT -5
So what you mean is the vibration of the voice over the phone, does some vibrating in other areas so that once you are alone and in an unsupervised environment then it's on!
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 20, 2008 8:54:54 GMT -5
Now when u say 1st date, does that mean there were a few conversations leading up to that date or was it the initial meeting and the date was the next communication??? TRUE!!! STILL DOESNT MEAN YOU KNOW THAT PERSON, THEIR LEVEL OF HYGIENE OR RESPECT FOR THEIR BODY. BUT I FEEL WHAT YOURE SAYING THOUGH.
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Post by johazy on Jun 27, 2008 10:16:41 GMT -5
listen...if I get in there on the first night...I would never be able to take her on a serious note moving forward...I like to have to work for it, that's how you know you're working for something good...
but if it comes on the first try then, its just easy
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 30, 2008 13:10:53 GMT -5
^^^^^THATS WHAT I BE TRYING TO TELL SOME CHICKS THAT IM COOL WITH BUT THEY JUST DONT GET IT!!! AND THEN THEY WONDER WHY THEY NOTHING BUT A BOOTYCALL.
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Post by Deep Chocolate in Deep South on Jun 30, 2008 17:59:58 GMT -5
Eye opening...a lot of women believe that there is a equal standard between women and men when it comes to sex. No, there's not. A woman who chooses to have sex on the first day is automatically de-valued. A man who does the same is considered a mack. It's not fair but that's the way it is.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 2, 2008 12:54:14 GMT -5
Eye opening...a lot of women believe that there is a equal standard between women and men when it comes to sex. No, there's not. A woman who chooses to have sex on the first day is automatically de-valued. A man who does the same is considered a mack. It's not fair but that's the way it is. OK NOW WE ABOUT TO GO IN DEEP!!! I'VE HAD THIS TALK WITH MANY WOMEN THAT I KNOW SO LETS GO. WOMEN CLAIM THERES A DOUBLE STANDARD WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS THAT SLEEP AROUND VERSUS WOMEN THAT SLEEP AROUND. AND THERE IS. HOWEVER, MEN ARE NOT THE ONES CAUSING THE DOUBLE STANDARD, ITS THE WOMEN. WOMEN ARE THE FIRST TO CONDEMN ANOTHER WOMAN FOR SLEEPING AROUND OR GIVING IT UP EASY, THE FIRST TO LABEL ANOTHER WOMAN A HOE. IF I TOLD ANY WOMAN THAT I KNOW THAT I HAD SEX WITH A WOMAN THAT I BARELY KNEW AT A CLUB, THE FIRST THING OUT HER MOUTH WOULD BE, "EWW SHE NASTY, SHE A HOE"!!! MEN DONT DO THAT TO OTHER MEN, WE SAY, "HOMIE GOT THAT OFF", LOL!!!
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