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Post by sexysafire on Jul 3, 2008 7:53:27 GMT -5
I completely agree with that. Woman are always labeling one another. However, I can agree with the sexually liberated woman......if we don't want a commitment then so be it. Sex can be just sex, no strings attached. But at the same time, if they don't want to be labeled, they shouldn't go out telling everyone who, when, and where they did it. You can have all the sex you want, just be tasteful and discreet about it.
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Post by Deep Chocolate in Deep South on Jul 4, 2008 22:43:27 GMT -5
Eye opening...a lot of women believe that there is a equal standard between women and men when it comes to sex. No, there's not. A woman who chooses to have sex on the first day is automatically de-valued. A man who does the same is considered a mack. It's not fair but that's the way it is. OK NOW WE ABOUT TO GO IN DEEP!!! I'VE HAD THIS TALK WITH MANY WOMEN THAT I KNOW SO LETS GO. WOMEN CLAIM THERES A DOUBLE STANDARD WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS THAT SLEEP AROUND VERSUS WOMEN THAT SLEEP AROUND. AND THERE IS. HOWEVER, MEN ARE NOT THE ONES CAUSING THE DOUBLE STANDARD, ITS THE WOMEN. WOMEN ARE THE FIRST TO CONDEMN ANOTHER WOMAN FOR SLEEPING AROUND OR GIVING IT UP EASY, THE FIRST TO LABEL ANOTHER WOMAN A HOE. IF I TOLD ANY WOMAN THAT I KNOW THAT I HAD SEX WITH A WOMAN THAT I BARELY KNEW AT A CLUB, THE FIRST THING OUT HER MOUTH WOULD BE, "EWW SHE NASTY, SHE A HOE"!!! MEN DONT DO THAT TO OTHER MEN, WE SAY, "HOMIE GOT THAT OFF", LOL!!! Women who choose to give it up are de-valued by men AND women. I don't argue that point. It's the way that it is. Sad but true. Women buy in to it as much as men do. It is what it is....
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Post by Deep Chocolate in Deep South on Jul 4, 2008 22:45:47 GMT -5
I completely agree with that. Woman are always labeling one another. However, I can agree with the sexually liberated woman......if we don't want a commitment then so be it. Sex can be just sex, no strings attached. But at the same time, if they don't want to be labeled, they shouldn't go out telling everyone who, when, and where they did it. You can have all the sex you want, just be tasteful and discreet about it. There you go.... A lot of women share entirely too much of their personal business with other women - and men...it's all apart of looking for validation and acceptance outside of themselves. Keep your shyte on the QT and you don't have to worry about anybody knowing what you're doing or who you're doing.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 8, 2008 10:59:20 GMT -5
OK NOW WE ABOUT TO GO IN DEEP!!! I'VE HAD THIS TALK WITH MANY WOMEN THAT I KNOW SO LETS GO. WOMEN CLAIM THERES A DOUBLE STANDARD WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS THAT SLEEP AROUND VERSUS WOMEN THAT SLEEP AROUND. AND THERE IS. HOWEVER, MEN ARE NOT THE ONES CAUSING THE DOUBLE STANDARD, ITS THE WOMEN. WOMEN ARE THE FIRST TO CONDEMN ANOTHER WOMAN FOR SLEEPING AROUND OR GIVING IT UP EASY, THE FIRST TO LABEL ANOTHER WOMAN A HOE. IF I TOLD ANY WOMAN THAT I KNOW THAT I HAD SEX WITH A WOMAN THAT I BARELY KNEW AT A CLUB, THE FIRST THING OUT HER MOUTH WOULD BE, "EWW SHE NASTY, SHE A HOE"!!! MEN DONT DO THAT TO OTHER MEN, WE SAY, "HOMIE GOT THAT OFF", LOL!!! Women who choose to give it up are de-valued by men AND women. I don't argue that point. It's the way that it is. Sad but true. Women buy in to it as much as men do. It is what it is.... I STILL FEEL THAT ITS PRIMARILY LEAD BY WOMEN. MOST MEN THINK ITS A GOOD THING FOR A GIRL TO GIVE IT UP ON THE FIRST DATE CAUSE WE'RE ALWAYS ON THE HUNT FOR THE BOOTY AND THE QUICKER WE GET IT THE FASTER WE CAN REST OUR CURIOSITY AND MOVE ON TO THE NEXT. WE EVEN GO AS FAR AS TELLING OTHER DUDES HOW EASY IT WAS SO THEY CAN GET SOME TOO. WRONG, YES, BUT THATS HOW IT HAPPENS. THE CRAB IN THE BARREL THEORY RUNS RAMPANT ESPECIALLY IN WOMEN. YALL ARE SO COMPETITIVE WITH EACHOTHER THAT ITS INSANE.
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Post by Wicked on Jul 12, 2008 6:43:53 GMT -5
I think one of the reasons there is a double standard is because of the the sexual organs themselves. Men having the external organ allowing them the ability to seperate sex from emotions. Women having the internal organ ties their emotions to the act of sex. Anytime you have sex, for a women you allow an individual into YOU. Whether we care to believe it or not you give a piece of yourself away in the case of men and women take a piece of that men into her, figuratively and literally. So giving yourself away on a first date can be seen as reckless to other people when you look at it from that perspective.
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 12, 2008 9:27:39 GMT -5
Very well said Wicked. I can fully see your point. But there are a lot of women out there, that act just like men and just do not get that attached during sex. Many women, who are looking for a relationship so that they can have that perfect life with the house, family, and white picket fence falsely think sex is going to get that for them. That's when their emotions get all caught up in it. I've seen it many many times with my family and friends.
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