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Post by Wicked on Jun 21, 2008 8:43:40 GMT -5
Ladies & Gentlemen:
Can anyone shed some light on why it is that men and women both get so bent out of shape when they see their mate look at someone of the opposite sex? I think much too much energy is wasted on this one. There is nothing wrong with a glance or look. If you are staring, then that is a whole other issue. It doesn't bother me one bit and I have caught many a significant other checking out the next dude. My take is I'm with you, if I wanted to be there with that one, I'd walk over and introduce myself. Is it just plain insecurity or is it deeper than that?
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 22, 2008 11:36:30 GMT -5
ITS ALL ABOUT SELF ESTEEM AND CONFIDENCE. A LACK OF BOTH IS AN INSTANT TURN OFF FOR ME!!!
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 23, 2008 11:08:23 GMT -5
I don't think there's anything wrong with just looking. No harm done.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jun 26, 2008 8:35:21 GMT -5
SO TRUE. IF YOU DONT TRUST ME, WHY ARE YOU WITH ME, STOP WASTING MY TIME!!! THE FUNNY THING IS THEY DONT TRUST YOU BUT THEY DONT WANNA BE WITHOUT YOU, LOL, WHAT TYPE OF CRAZINESS IS THAT?
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 26, 2008 9:45:45 GMT -5
that is called CERTIFIABLE OR BANANA CREAM PIE CRAZY!!!! lol
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Post by Deep Chocolate in Deep South on Jun 30, 2008 18:01:24 GMT -5
Living in Atlanta, I hope he looks. If he doesn't, then I'm worried about him. lol. As long as he's respectful of me and my feelings, look - cause you better believe I am.
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Post by sexysafire on Jun 30, 2008 20:12:06 GMT -5
A look is harmless.
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Post by Wicked on Jul 1, 2008 12:37:55 GMT -5
As harmless as it seems, it troubles a lot of people. I've seen it do serious damage to people, because as I understand it from someone it does bother, that it is just plain disrespectful to look at someone else when you are with someone.
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 1, 2008 21:15:24 GMT -5
As long as you are not staring and drooling at the person, what's the harm?
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 2, 2008 12:45:02 GMT -5
TRY TELLING THAT TO MOST WOMEN!!! YOU CANT EVEN ADMIT THAT YOU LOOK AT OTHER WOMEN WITHOUT DODGING A SLAP, LOL!!!!
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 2, 2008 13:42:20 GMT -5
Well I've seen that with some of my friends and their men. I find it funny.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 8, 2008 10:59:57 GMT -5
ITS JUST WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS. YALL MIGHT AS WELL PUT BLINDERS ON US, LOL.
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Post by Wicked on Jul 8, 2008 11:07:41 GMT -5
We may as well not go outside period. Driving in the car is the worse, I can pull it off walking around but in the car, my goodness. I can't possibly be checking the mirrors as I drive, no I'm checking out the girl on the corner waiting for the bus or the chick jogging in the park. Some women are peices of work. I could care less whether you stare, drool or otherwise. I just love women all shapes and sizes and I enjoy admiring a women's beauty. I should not be cast into pergatory because of it.
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 12, 2008 9:32:12 GMT -5
There are men out there that do the same thing. I know a guy that has a problem if his girl is looking a guy on tv the wrong way. Come on now, are you serious?
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 15, 2008 10:47:51 GMT -5
^^^^^THATS CAUSE HE AINT LAYING THE PIPE RIGHT, LOL!!!!
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