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Post by sexysafire on Jul 12, 2008 9:30:26 GMT -5
I hid that part of myself from my boyfriend back in high school. Once I did tell him a few years into the relationship, I was questioned about every female friend I went and hung out with. I was so sorry I told him. After that, I made sure that that was one of the first things I tell people about myself.
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Post by Wicked on Jul 12, 2008 9:39:43 GMT -5
I find that men that get all bent out of shape on this issue begin to question there own manhood as a result of the woman they chose having interest in other women. My younger brother dated a women and he found out that she liked women too, he begain to stress everytime one of her friends was around. Thinking, "is she in the life too?" I sat lil' bro down and schooled him. Listen, you are not less of a man because she likes women. Your manhood is not defined by someone else's actions or choices. Manning up is acceptance and respect of other peoples wishes and desires. What defines her, doesn't define you.
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 12, 2008 9:49:10 GMT -5
Oh preach it Wicked!!!!!! You are one of my favorite people on this board.
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Post by Wicked on Jul 12, 2008 9:58:13 GMT -5
Thank you!!! I appreciate the love. Can a brother be exalted once or twice?
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 13, 2008 9:18:08 GMT -5
you are exalted!!! lol
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 15, 2008 10:46:41 GMT -5
A MANS EGO AND PRIDE ARE EXTREMELY FRAGILE THINGS!!! ANYTHING THAT POSES A THREAT TO EITHER ONE SENDS A MAN STRAIGHT TO REJECTION AND DEFENSIVE MODE.
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Post by Wicked on Jul 15, 2008 17:26:10 GMT -5
A weak man can be broken like that. Never let them see you sweat.
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 15, 2008 20:24:51 GMT -5
I understand that, but what happens when you have 2 girls willing to be with you at the same time and I mean we already started then all of a sudden you decide that you don't want to. WTF?
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Post by Wicked on Jul 16, 2008 13:01:44 GMT -5
You don't all of a sudden decide, awww I don't want to. That is some BS. I hate to admit it but I fell short once. Fortunately, I had been with them before and I was excused on this day. But, there is a lot of pressure and anxiety associated with being in the Menage a trois. You are so excited and want to do everything, but if the reciptors aren't working and the messages are being dropped like lost cell phone signals, it will not be pretty to forge ahead. It may have just been better that he decided to step down.
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 16, 2008 13:51:26 GMT -5
THATS TRUE, SOME PEOPLE KNOW THEIR LIMITS.
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 16, 2008 17:01:00 GMT -5
Well I guess he knew his. He wasn't that good anyway. lol
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 17, 2008 13:06:28 GMT -5
WHY YALL ALWAYS GOTTA GET A BROTHA LIKE THAT AFTER YALL BREAK UP,"HE WASNT GOOD IN BED ANYWAY", LOL!!! YALL JUST CANT LET IT RIDE WITHOUT PUTTING A BROTHAS BIDNESS IN THE STREET!!! HE OBVIOUSLY WAS GOOD ENOUGH WHEN YALL WAS TOGETHER, LOL!!!
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 17, 2008 21:40:23 GMT -5
Who said he was good enough when we were together? I don't remember anything like that coming out of my mouth. I brought my friend in for some excitement. Besides I did my thing on the side for years.........lol
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Post by T-SMOOVE on Jul 18, 2008 8:53:13 GMT -5
SCANDALOUS HEFFA, LOL!!!!
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Post by sexysafire on Jul 18, 2008 17:28:26 GMT -5
Needless to say, he never knew a thing!!! *****pats self on shoulder******
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